How to Raise a Drug-Free Child: Tips from Author Joseph Califano
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Califano's newest book both acknowledges and strengthens a parent's power. Its chapters tell you how to talk to your children, give them straightforward messages, and get them ready for the college years. It underscores the importance of communication, setting limits, and parental engagement.
The 9 Facets of Parental Engagement (from Chapter 1, Part I)
1. Be there. Get involved in your children's lives and activities.
2. Open the lines of communication and keep them wide open.
3. Set a good example: Actions are more persuasive than words.
4. Set rules and expect your children to follow them.
5. Monitor your children's whereabouts.
6. Maintain family rituals such as eating dinner together.
7. Incorporate religious and spiritual activities into family life.
8. Get Dad engaged and keep him engaged.
9. Engage the larger family of your children's friends, teachers, classmates, neighbors and community.
This how-to manual also reminds us of dangers in a country that comprises 4% of global population yet consumes 65% of its drugs. It gives parents tools to deal with challenging questions (such as: You drink beer/wine, so why can't I?) and combat the distorted messages in popular culture. It tells you what factors (such as divorce, job loss, depression and sexual activity) increase the likelihood of usage, and what to do should you find out your kid is experimenting.
Above all, this book reminds us parents hold the key to eliminating such risks. CASA finds that our influence during the formative years helps children survive the dangerous decade (10-20) and prepare for the moment of decision. Because the reality is that every American child will be offered some substance before they graduate high school- and it will happen more than once.
"To find the solution," Califano concludes, "just look in the mirror."
Parents who want more information can visit the CASA website: www.casacolumbia.org (where they can also register for a November seminar); can take a look at straightdopeforparents.org; and can write to [email protected].