Nate Berkus and Jeremiah Brent on Why It's Important to Include Family Moments on Their Show

Nate Berkus and Jeremiah Brent, the interior design duo behind TLC’s Nate & Jeremiah By Design and dads to Poppy, 3, and Oskar, 2 months, were in NYC this week celebrating the launch of Huggies® Made By You™ personalized diapers—and the birth of their son. We chatted with Berkus and Brent about welcoming Oskar to the family, how they plan to keep their kids grounded, and why it’s important for them to include family moments in their show. 

Both Poppy and Oskar were born via surrogates, and Brent said the couple has been very fortunate in that regard. “The surrogacy process for us was beautiful,” he said. “The best part of surrogacy that nobody talks about is the opportunity for it to be really special and really emotional. It took a lot of love to get our children here, so we are really grateful to [our surrogates] and will continue to be really grateful to them for the rest of our lives.”

Poppy was included every step of the way throughout the process, including attending doctor’s appointments, Brent added. And “she hasn’t broken stride” since he’s come home, Berkus said.

“She knows her value in that household. She’s not worried about it,” Brent said. “She engages when she wants, she takes care of him when she wants, and that’s all she has to do and all she has to be.”

If you’re a fan of the show, you’ve caught little glimpses of Poppy knowing her value even before Oskar arrived. And showing those family moments on screen are important to Berkus and Brent.

“Like everybody, there’s several facets to us as a couple and to our home life. We recognize that there aren’t a lot of gay families on television, and so we really wanted to take the opportunity to just be authentic and allow cameras into our home…to see what our lives are like day in and day out,” Berkus said. “And I think that the most important thing for us is when we hear from someone who’s living anywhere who says, you know, ‘I’m a gay kid, I’m 17 years old. I never had role models. I’ve never seen a family with two dads on TV raising their children. Thank you. Thank you for giving me something to watch.’ I didn’t have that, Jeremiah didn’t have that, and so it’s a big responsibility for us.”